Coaching and Mentoring Packages 

 IST of an ISM: Systemically Dominant and Systemically Non-Dominant Coaching and Mentoring supports individuals and groups in healing, growth, and liberation at the intersections of identity, trauma impacted by systemic oppression.

Developmental Life Coaching

Explore how trauma shapes choices, relationships, and identity—and create meaningful, embodied shifts.

Dismantle to Heal™ Collective

Small group coaching focusing on the reflective work of collectively dismantling the harm of systemic oppression.

Betrayal Trauma Coaching

For relational, institutional, or faith-based betrayal. Explore patterns and reclaim safety and truth.

Racial & Cultural Trauma Coaching

For Black, Brown, and Indigenous clients: process racialized trauma, minoritization, and cultural betrayal.
For systemically dominant clients: unlearn white body supremacy and engage in repair.

Sexual Betrayal Trauma Coaching

Specialized support for partners recovering from infidelity and sexual betrayal. Informed by APSATS, ERCEM, MPTM, and MBAT-RC methods.

Important Notice: Coaching Is Not Clinical Therapy

At Share the Flame LLC™, we offer trauma-informed coaching, consulting, and speaking—not clinical or medical treatment.

We can honor your past yet, our primary focus is on your present experiences and future goals, helping you build resilience, healing, and growth through a social justice trauma-responsive lens. While our work may feel therapeutic, it is not a substitute for licensed mental health care.

If you are experiencing trauma-related symptoms that require a diagnosis or clinical intervention, we encourage you to seek support from a licensed therapist, counselor, psychologist, or psychiatrist. We do not diagnose or treat mental health conditions.

Consulting Packages

(Customized to Organizational Need)

IST of an ISM: Systemically Dominant and Systemically Non-Dominant Consulting supports individuals and groups in healing, growth, and liberation at the intersections of identity, trauma, and systemic harm.

At Share the Flame LLC™, we specialize in trauma-informed systems transformation rooted in a social justice framework. Our work is grounded in the abolitionist belief that meaningful change requires us to dismantle and replace harmful systems—not merely reform them.

We partner with nonprofit (including faith-based), corporate, government, and academic organizations to identify and address the barriers that prevent deep, effective, and lasting systems change.

Through a bold and compassionate customized approach through equity education and social justice trauma informed practices, we spark insight, ignite collective growth, and cultivate shared vision. Our goal is to transform resistance into readiness—helping teams and institutions evolve toward trauma-informed, equity-rooted cultures of care. 

Retreat and Event Speaking and Training Packages 

 IST of an ISM: Systemically Dominant and Systemically Non-Dominant Speaking and Training provides services for retreats and events 

Services for organizational retreats and events Include:

• Motivational keynotes & TED-style talks

• Interactive workshops & trainings

• Retreat & event facilitation

• Panel speaking & storytelling

• Podcast interviews

• Custom equity & healing sessions

Retreat Options for Organizational Change 

Through customized facilitation, Dr. Debi helps organizations:

• Uncover and disrupt internal systems of harm

• Build trauma-informed, equity-rooted cultures

• Move from performative change to real transformation